It's really important to be thankful for the people that are in your life right now. Because things happen and people change and if you aren't thankful for the people in your life now, you'll regret it when they aren't in your life. Even if they are still in your life the relationship you have with them might change...and once it changes it will never be the same.
The kind of sad thing about humans is I think it takes us losing something before we can fully understand how much it means to us, or how much we need to it to make it through the day. I can tell you to be thankful and to appreciate everything and everyone in your life. But I know you won't until you lose someone that you needed.
I also think it's important for people to look at previous mistakes to help them avoid them again. A good example is breaking up. If they broke up with you or if you broke up with them, there was most likely a good reason behind it. A reason that will always be there no matter what...no matter how badly you don't want it there it is still going to be there, so don't try to go around it or pretend its not there. I don't understand why people date other people more than once...well, I know why. It's because you want it to work out, and you don't want to give up on that person just yet...which is sweet and all but that reason for the break up to even occur is still there. So odds are against you when it comes to everything working out to how it use to be. When it comes to getting back together with someone I would advise that you don't do it because you'll end up more hurt than before. It would be like cutting yourself and then not giving it chance to heal and cutting yourself again--now its going to take twice as long to heal and it hurts way more the second time.
I can't say "be thankful" enough because I think it's so important..and I feel like saying that isn't enough, but there really isn't another way to say it.
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