To the person that commented on my blog the other day

"Why do you feel you know everything about love? i respect you, a lot, but it doesn't make sense to me that you're critiquing all teenagers relationships when you are a teenager, in a relationship as well."

So, pretty much...I don't know everything about love, for sure. I don't think anyone does. I don't think I ever said I did, also...I'm not trying to critique anyone on their relationship at all. Sorry if it seems like I am, a bunch of people ask for my advice on stuff like this and I'm giving it to them, and I put it on here as well because some people might have the same problems but don't wanna ask, so yeah I'm just sayin what I think. 

I am very aware about me being a teenager and being in a relationship, but that's why I give advice and what not. I don't think it really matters how old I am and if I'm in a relationship or not, all I know is how I would feel in some of these situations, and that's all. I'm giving is my open opinion and what I would pretty much do or how I feel about a situation. You can kinda take it or leave it, I don't really care.

If you have a problem with my blog then don't read it, you can stop reading at anytime... :P 

It's here for the people who want to read it. 

Thanks for the comment tho, but it does suck that you got the wrong vibe from my blog.

Understand This

I don't think boys understand how much girls need to be reassured of things. I don't care if she is the most confident girl in the world...if you think she's pretty, or beautiful, or if you love her, you need to tell her. For god's sake don't think that we just know, because we might know, but knowing just isn't enough, I'm sorry, I wish it was enough to just know that we are pretty and loved, but it's not. We need to hear it for some reason. We don't care if you tell us 10 times a day, we just need to hear it. 

You should honestly text some girl right now that you think is the prettiest thing you've ever seen, and tell her exactly that. Even if the girl can't take a compliment to save her life, tell her anyway because she still needs to hear stuff like that. No girl will not like hearing something like this about them. It's one of the best feelings in the world--being called beautiful, or being told that your loved just because you can tell us.

So don't be afraid to tell us, don't think that you're being annoying, and just tell us. Because it's important that you understand that we need to be reassured. Even the most confident girl in the world needs to hear that she's beautiful.

Honeymoon

I was talking to a friend of mine the other day and we we're talking about their relationship. The Honeymoon stage is officially over...it's time for the real relationship to start, but, wait...it can't. 

I find it really interesting that every relationship ends after the Honeymoon Stage. I also think it's dumb. For the last 3-4 months you didn't have to try very hard to be happy with your significant other, just looking at them made you happy. You got to know them fairly well, they become one of your best friends, and they seem perfect. Then the Honeymoon stage runs out and all of a sudden everything about them irritates you to no end. Things from the way they dress or their stupid jokes that use to make you laugh just...don't. 

All of a sudden you have to start accepting this person's flaws and decide if you can deal with them or not. (This is the part where people crumble) They crumble because I don't think people like dealing with other people's flaws. And just when they got so use to being perfect and lovey dovey all the time the other person got super annoying.  So...you stop appreciating each other, you still care about them, but not like you use to. Because the honeymoon stage blinds people, and once it wears off the only thing that's left is that person and who they truly are. 

So, my point is, I think it's sad when people only last through the honeymoon stage. You spent a good chunk of a year with someone and then people just let it all go. All I'm trying to say is...learn to except people for all that they are, and learn to care for them without the blindness of the honeymoon stage.

It doesn't take a long time for a relationship to make a foundation to grow, so don't destroy that foundation. Because then all your gonna do is crumble, and lose someone who was once very important to you, and you'll never have them the same way ever again.