Long Distance Relationships

Oh, the burning hell of a long distance relationship. The torture that it brings, it makes me wonder why people do it. Sometimes I wonder why I'm doing it.

I mean, I dislike long distance relationships so much that I wouldn't recommend them to anyone. It's because they're hard. I mean, they are really something else. They rip your heart apart and burn the pieces up and then put what ever is left to the ultimate test.

The test of being alone most of the time. The test of having to deal with being around other couples who are in the honeymoon stage deep, and couples who are just plain in love, or just couples in general. And this is a harder test then what it might sound like. And if you make it through those tests you get to undergo the test of Valentines Day...and if Valentines Day doesn't fall on a weekend, then you just might have to endure it on your own, and be overwhelmed with roses, teddy bears, chocolates, valentines, and happy couples, all day long. And the only thing you have connecting you to your significant other, is your cell phone or skype.

Long distance relationships make you be away from your special someone for weeks and months at a time. It jerks tears, it makes your eyes puffy in the morning, cause you've cried yourself to sleep for the last 3 consecutive nights. It makes you miss them before you are even separated...and maybe you don't miss them...but you start missing not being able to touch them, or talk to them face to face, or tickle them, or hug or kiss them, or laugh with them whenever you want.

So...you might be thinking, if they're so bad then why am I apart of one?

Well...I don't recommend this kind of relationship to people because it causes me a lot of pain. And I don't want other people to have to experience it. But I'm in one because the person I'm with...is 110% worth the pain. He's worth the tears, and the puffy eyes, and the sadness, and the Valentines Day from hell. He's worth it because I can't see myself with anyone else. And I don't want to be with anyone else. I'm in a long distance relationship because I found someone that I don't mind suffering for because when I eventually get to see him...for a few hours, or for a day, or for a weekend, for a week, a month. It's completely worth all the pain, because the pain can't compare to the stupid smile I can't hold back when I see him. It can't compare to the butterflies that I still get for some reason.

I'm in a long distance relationship because I'm in love, and I feel like people should always do whatever it takes for love to be successful. If you love someone then you should be with them no matter what because they are the ones that make you happy, and smile like an idiot, they're the one's that drive you crazy, frustrate you to no end, but you just can't get enough of them.

I guess I don't suggest long distance relationships to people who don't wanna feel a little pain, I don't recommend them to people who don't like being alone, I don't recommend them to people who worry a lot. I do recommend them to people who are in love, I recommend them to people who don't care about a few hundred miles, and I recommend them to people who like big rewards.

Because when you hug your significant other for the first time in a few weeks, you remember why your in a long distance relationship, and it all of a sudden becomes very worth the lonely days, and depressing nights.

Your just, worth it to me.

Sweet Summertime

Does anyone else miss summer as much as me?

I miss the sun beaming on my face, I miss going to the lake, I miss shooting off fireworks, I miss going to the ocean, staying up late, sleeping in late, and running bare foot on the bright green grass. I miss the thunderstorms and the rain bows. I miss carrying my bathing suit around where ever I go "just in case". I miss wearing flip flops every day and I miss painting my toes a new set of colors every Sunday. I miss wearing sun dresses and driving around with the radio up and the windows down. I miss full moons and warm nights. I miss man hunt, and bonfires, and playing in the rain. I miss sunglasses and Not My Dad's...I miss eating ice cream for dinner, and waking up to the smell of freshly cut grass. I miss lemon aid and BBQ's. I miss catching fire flies, campouts, and bike rides.

I miss summer :/

Favorite Song of the Day

Sandcastle Disco by Solange

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yCJRD7ciFE0

Lyrics:
Who would've known
The rain and the sunshine
Would Ooh Baby Baby
Build up these walls of mine?
And I can't see you or breathe you
Cause there's trouble right beneath you
It's all in the night
But ooh baby baby
Come pick me up in your ride

I'm a cool low Jane
With a skip on my feet
I play tough as nails
With my heart on my sleeve
I'm nothing but a sandcastle
Baby don't blow me away away

Baby I know you do that to all the girls
You know that I'm fragile
Ooh ooh ooh ooh hoo hoo ooh
Bay ba ba ba ba-by
Don't blow me away

Baby I know you do that to all the girls
You know that I'm fragile
Ooh ooh ooh ooh hoo hoo ooh
Bay ba ba ba ba-by
Don't blow me away

Who would've known
The storm of my past times
Would ooh baby make me
Losing the song of the eye

And I can't believe you or read you
Cause the pleasure in your preview
It's all in your eyes
But oh Mr. DJ, baby, can you meet me out side

You're a old school dude
With a kick on your shoes
You got groove in your hand
The way you spin those tunes
I'm nothing but a sand castle
Baby don't blow away away


Baby I know you do this to all the girls
But Baby I'm fragile
Ooh ooh ooh ooh hoo hoo ooh
Bay ba ba ba ba-by
Don't blow me away

Baby I know you do that to all the girls
You know that I'm fragile
Ooh ooh ooh ooh hoo hoo ooh
Bay ba ba ba ba-by
Don't blow me away

Ooh and just like the ocean
Lays right there behind me
Look over my sandcastle
And there's a sight to see
Don't blow me away
Don't blow me baby

Ba ba ba ba ba ba ba ba ba
ba ba ba ba ba

Ooh baby I know you do that to all the girls
You know that I'm fragile
Ooh ooh ooh ooh hoo hoo ooh
Bay ba ba ba ba-by
Don't blow me away

Baby I know you do that to all the girls
You know that I'm fragile
Ooh ooh ooh ooh hoo hoo ooh
And bay ba ba ba ba-by
Please don't blow me away

Away Away

Ba ba-da, ba ba ooh ooh Away away x2

Ba ba-da, ba ba ooh ooh
Ba ba-da, ba ba ooh ooh

I Miss Your Voice

I understand how convenient texting is, but I mean don't you guys get tired of texting sometimes?
Some of you are probably thinking, that I'm crazy for making such a statement. Because you suck at talking on the phone. Yeah, you know why you suck at talking on the phone? Because you don't ever talk on the phone because you are always texting.

Today, we live in a world where everyone wants everything now, and they want things to be very convenient. Which is fine, but heaven forbid if you pick up the phone just to call someone and tell them that you love them, or just talk to them about your day. A texting conversation can take all day and you don't move through much material, a phone call can take 15 minutes if you want it to, or it can take 2 hours, and you can get through all kinds of topics...but no matter how long it takes, it means more than a text because you can actually hear the persons voice. And hear the emotion in their voice...therefore, making calling way more personal then texting and I think that's something else that society is sprinting away from. We're running away from personal things, people don't really talk anymore, they text, or e-mail, or Facebook chat. At least when our grandparents were our age they wrote letters and it was in their own hand writing...and they were long, and a lot of the time they were about love and important things going on in their lives.


I just wish people put more...effort? into communicating with other people/people they care about. I mean, now-a-days it's like...a treat if someone calls you instead of texts you. That's pretty pathetic, people should just take a few minutes out of their day and just say what they were gonna say in a text, but actually say it themselves. Because when you think about it, in the amount of time it takes to type out the text, and send it, possibly resend it, and then the receiver has to first realize that they have received a message, and then once they read it, and respond and then you respond to their response...you could have just picked up the phone, called them...said what you wanted to say and be done. And it would be 10x more personal because the person you called could actually hear your voice instead of just read what your saying in their head.

I just don't see the harm in picking the phone up every now and then to just say hi. Because I get tired of texting. I miss your voice.

Favorite Song of the Day

Mary's Song (oh my, my, my) by Taylor Swift

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zx0CRJSACr0&feature=related

Lyrics:

She said, I was seven and you were nine
I looked at you like the stars that shined
In the sky, the pretty lights
And our daddies used to joke about the two of us
Growing up and falling in love and our mamas smiled
And rolled their eyes and said oh my my my

Take me back to the house in the backyard tree
Said you'd beat me up, you were bigger than me
You never did, you never did
Take me back when our world was one block wide
I dared you to kiss me and ran when you tried
Just two kids, you and I...
Oh my my my my

Well, I was sixteen when suddenly
I wasn't that little girl you used to see
But your eyes still shined like pretty lights
And our daddies used to joke about the two of us
They never believed we'd really fall in love
And our mamas smiled and rolled their eyes
And said oh my my my...

Take me back to the creek beds we turned up
Two A.M. riding in your truck and all I need is you next to me
Take me back to the time we had our very first fight
The slamming of doors instead of kissing goodnight
You stayed outside till the morning light
Oh my my my my

A few years had gone and come around
We were sitting at our favorite spot in town
And you looked at me, got down on one knee

Take me back to the time when we walked down the aisle
Our whole town came and our mamas cried
You said I do and I did too
Take me home where we met so many years before
We'll rock our babies on that very front porch
After all this time, you and I

I'll be eighty-seven; you'll be eighty-nine
I'll still look at you like the stars that shine
In the sky, oh my my my...

Favorite Song of the Day

Suga Suga by Baby Bash

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W9vGDJlsSOo&feature=related

Lyrics:
So tight, so fly
You got me lifted, you got me lifted

[Chorus (Frankie J.):]
You got me lifted shifted higher than a ceiling
And ooh wee it’s the ultimate feeling
You got me lifted feeling so gifted
Sugar how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?

[Baby Bash]
You know its leather when we ride
We're flinging rawhide
Doing what we do, watching screens getting high
Gurl you keep it so fly with you sweet hunnybuns
You was there when the money was gone
You’ll be there when the money comes
Off top I can't lie I love to get blowed
You my lil'sugar, I'm yo little chulo
And every time we kick it it’s off to the groovy
Treat you like my sticky ickey or my sweet oowy goowy (fa real though)

You got me lifted shifted higher than a ceiling
And ooh wee it’s the ultimate feeling
You got me lifted feeling so gifted
Sugar how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?

[Baby Bash]
Now I ain't worried about a thang cause I just hit me a lick
I got a fat sack and a superfly chick
There ain't nothing you can say to a playa
Cause doowop, she fly like the planes in the air
That’s right she’s full grown setting the wrong tone
I'm digging the energy and I'm loving the o-zone
So fly like a dove so fly like a raven
Quick to politic with some fly conversation
In a natural mood then I'm a natural dude
And we some natural fools blowing out by the pool
She like my sexy-cool mama with blades on her berata
Rockin' Dolce Gabbana (Italian) with highdrows and a Cubana

You got me lifted shifted higher than a ceiling
And ooh wee it’s the ultimate feeling
You got me lifted feeling so gifted
Sugar how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?

[Brige]
You know its leather when we ride
We're flinging rawhide
Doing what we do, watching screens getting high
Gurl you keep it so fly with you sweet hunnybuns
You was there when the money was gone
You’ll be there when the money comes

You know its leather when we ride
We're flinging rawhide
Doing what we do, watching screens getting high
Gurl you keep it so fly with you sweet hunnybuns
You was there when the money was gone
You’ll be there when the money comes (fa real though)

You got me lifted shifted higher than a ceiling
And ooh wee it’s the ultimate feeling
You got me lifted feeling so gifted
Sugar how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?
Suga suga how you get so fly?

So high like I'm a star
So high like I'm a star
So high like I'm a star
So high like I'm a star

Azucar

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Hopelessly Hopeful

I think one of the worst things someone could ever do to themselves is think of something to say that goes against their intuition...but then say it anyway. You know, that one thing that you want to say to someone but you know in the back of your head that they aren't gonna say anything to make you feel better even though you desperately want them to.

I hate how hopelessly hopeful I am all the time. Of pretty much everything too...and that's a problem. It's a problem because being hopeful of good things normally hurts me more then helps me. Which is sad because you would think that hoping for the best would be a good thing, but it's actually the worst thing. Because...not to sound like a pessimist or anything but when you hope for the best then you are just getting your hopes up for someone to say something that falls along the lines of what you had hoped for...and then when they don't it just leaves you more hopeless than before.

Which is just as equally as sad as not being able to be hopeful for good things. Because now you can't hope for good things, and you can't be hopeful for good things because your just gonna hurt yourself more in the end.

I don't want to be afraid to be hopeful. I feel like maybe if people were always truly honest and weren't afraid to tell the truth or share all of their thoughts or feelings then maybe people would be able to be hopeful...because for someone to be hopeful there must have been something said or done to give them that hope..it didn't just come to them, it was given to them.

So I guess I wish people were more honest, especially with ones they care about, or are suppose to care about because the people that care about us are the ones that are instilling these hopes in us. So it's completely stupid that they are also the ones who are shutting us down and making us feel worse than before.

I think one of the worst things you could do to yourself is go against your intuition. But one of the worst things you could do to somebody else is not give them the whole truth when they ask for it...(and probably even when they don't ask for it). Because when you don't tell somebody exactly how you feel about something then they won't ever know, and don't think that they just do...because nobody ever knows anything unless they are told. That's just how people are...and if you think that people can just pick up on hints, then your wrong, because people never pick up on hints like we would like them to.

Maybe if people stopped giving only part of the truth to the people they cared about then people like me wouldn't have to be hopelessly hopeful all the time. Because we would just know, we wouldn't have to second guess, or hope for the best, because we would have the best, and we would know that we have the best.

Favorite Song of the Day

She's So High by Tal Bachman

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ElORM9O-0U

Lyrics:

She's blood, flesh and bone
No tucks or silicone
She's touch, smell, sight, taste and sound

But somehow I can't believe
That anything should happen
I know where I belong
And nothing's gonna happen
Yeah, yeah

'Cause she's so high...
High above me, she's so lovely
She's so high...
Like Cleopatra, Joan of Arc, or Aphrodite
She's so high...
High above me

First class and fancy free
She's high society
She's got the best of everything

What could a guy like me
Ever really offer?
She's perfect as she can be
Why should I even bother?
'Cause she's so high...
High above me, she's so lovely
She's so high...
Like Cleopatra, Joan of Arc, or Aphrodite
She's so high...
High above me 

She comes to speak to me
I freeze immediately
'Cause what she says sounds so unreal

But somehow I can't believe
That anything should happen
I know where I belong
And nothing's gonna happen
Yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah
'Cause she's so high...
High above me, she's so lovely
She's so high...
Like Cleopatra, Joan of Arc, or Aphrodite
She's so high...
High above me 

Favorite Song of the Day

Don't You Wanna Stay? by Jason Aldean

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sIjkVn_ro0g


Lyrics:

I really hate to let this moment go,
touching your skin and your hair falling slow,
when your goodbye kiss, feels like this,

Don't you wanna stay here a little while?
Don't you wanna hold each other tight?
Don't you wanna fall asleep with me tonight?
Don't you wanna stay here a little while?
We can make forever feel this way,
Don't you wanna stay?

Let's take it slow I don't want to move too fast,
I don't wanna just make love, I wanna make love last,
When your on this high, its a sad goodbye,

Don't you wanna stay here a little while?
Don't you wanna hold each other tight?
Don't you wanna fall asleep with me tonight?
Don't you wanna stay here a little while?
We can make forever feel this way,
Don't you wanna stay?

Oh yeahhh,
Oh you feel so perfect baby,
Yeah it feels so perfect baby,
Don't you wanna stay here a little while,

Don't you wanna stay here a little while?
Don't you wanna hold each other tight?
Don't you wanna fall asleep with me tonight?
Don't you wanna stay here a little while?
We can make forever feel this way,
Don't you wanna stay?

Don't you wanna stay,
yeah yeah yeahhh,
yeah yeah yeahhh.

Crazy Bitch

I hate it when people aren't thankful for what they have.

Mostly when it comes to having other people around them that love them. Okay, I actually just hate rude and inconsiderate girlfriends.

I also can't stand overly jealous girlfriends...which normally goes hand in hand with the rude inconsiderate thing. You know, the kind that don't deserve a boyfriend in the first place? I hate that kind of girlfriend.

The kind of girlfriend that is too thickheaded to even see how lucky she is. The kind that is too wrapped up in herself she can't even think enough to care about anyone else for more then one second. Which leads to her only thinking of herself and that leads to her never thinking about the life you may lead. Which is a weird thought to her. The thought that...oh my gosh, he just might live for more then just you. That's some mind blowing stuff right there.

I hate it when girls get all caddy about their boyfriends. Or when the girlfriend is a bitch to all the girls that are nice to her boyfriend...just nice. I guess it's weird that I actually want my boyfriend to have friends? Because heaven forbid if he's friends with someone that happens to be a female. It must mean that he wants to have sex with her :/

Except it doesn't. I mean, if you can't trust your own boyfriend...if you can't trust that he's faithful to you, then at least try and trust the girl (if you know her) and even if you don't...why would you automatically assume that she's some kind of slut? It's really pathetic if you can't even trust your own boyfriend though...because you know, your suppose to know him and what not.

I just don't understand why some girlfriends feel like it's okay to be a total bitch to their boyfriend all the time. What are you trying to do? Change him? Teach him a lesson? Test him? Well, you can only change, and teach and test for so long before he realizes that the sex isn't even that good anyway, and he could...no he definitely can and most likely will do better for himself. He just has to build up the guts to break up with your crazy ass.

Single-Awareness Day

Valentines Day is such a love-hate kind of 'holiday'. Your suppose to love it if you have someone to celebrate it with. But you hate it if you don't have anyone because when you don't have anyone its a 24 hour reminder that your lonely.

Except you probably aren't as lonely as you think you are. I know what it's like to be lonely on Valentines Day, it sucks, if your lonely it's not called Valentines Day it's called Single-Awareness Day. It's unfortunate that it has to be so cut throat. Maybe it doesn't have to be though.

My definition of Valentine's Day is the one day of the year where you show unconditional love for the whole day. No matter what, you are suppose to be happy, and all lovey-dovey for the whole day.

I understand that it's hard to be happy and lovey-dovey if your lonely. But just because you might not have someone doesn't mean that you don't have anyone. There are still people who love you even if they aren't the 'one'. There are people that still care for you.

I don't know if I like Valentine's Day though, because based on my definition your suppose to be happy and act like your in love for the whole day...for the day. So...when the day is over then you can just stop pretty much. Except you shouldn't stop.

That's why I don't like Valentine's Day because people get all hell bent 6 ways if their significant other isn't all lovey-dovey on Valentine's Day. Yes, it would be nice if they were nice to you...but what about the other 364 days of the year? I would rather have someone who is always some kind of lovey-dovey for the whole year then on just one day. I want to feel loved everyday, not just on Valentine's Day. I think it's kind of messed up that people get so stressed about Valentine's Day, it's like the whole relationship revolves around this one day and it shouldn't. The relationship should revolve around the two people in it not the holidays it may come across.

Ding Ding

Is it weird that fighting with ones I love doesn't bother me that much?

That half didn't come out as I meant it, because you probably think I'm some kind of crazy, I mean; who would enjoy fighting? Nobody. What I meant was...fighting and then being to able to make up with the ones I love makes me really happy.

Remember when in middle school whenever you would get into a fight with your significant other it was almost a sure sign for a break up? The fight could have been over something as useless as someone taking your pencil and then your significant other hearing about it and boom. No more relationship.

Well, I love the fact that I can get into a teeth grinding, wall punching, cursing your name, say things I don't mean, "I hate you" kind of fights and know as I'm fighting that eventually we will make up and everything will be okay again.

I mean, fighting in general isn't that bad of a thing...yes people get hurt emotionally most of the time because of the harsh things said. But those harsh things are normally said because your frustrated that you aren't getting your point across. Which is why the fight started in the first place...the fight started because something was said, and it bothered you. And instead of letting it go, you stood up for yourself and let the other person know that you have a problem with something.

I think that's really good with relationships because if you just go through the relationship without standing up for yourself or without bringing up things that bother you...the all the things that have ever bothered you during the relationship will eventually come up...instead of having an argument...you'll have yourself a war. You'll have a war because now instead of the fight being about one little thing it's about tons and tons of little things that actually end up equally about 6 nukes instead of a couple of grenades.

So...I guess this might sound a little weird, but I think I might be encouraging fighting. Or at least standing up for yourself and be vocal, let the other person know that something they do bothers you or they'll keep doing it because you never said anything.

And if this is a big boy and girl relationship then you will both make up and get over it and you'll learn. That's why I don't mind fighting, because once we make up it's kind of nice to know that we can fight about ridiculous things and call each other all sorts of things out of anger and still be together. It kinda makes me feel more secure in the relationship. So being in the fighting ring with you doesn't really bother me, cause once I hear that ding ding I know that we'll still be okay.

Favorite Song of the Day

Unwell by Matchbox 20

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WziA88-n02k


Lyrics:
All day
Staring at the ceiling
Making friends with shadows on my wall
All night
Hearing voices telling me
That I should get some sleep
Because tomorrow might be good for something
Hold on
I'm feeling like I'm headed for a
Breakdown
I don't know why
I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell
I know, right now you can't tell
But stay awhile and maybe then you'll see
A different side of me
I'm not crazy, I'm just a little impaired
I know, right now you don't care
But soon enough you're gonna think of me
And how I used to be
Me
Talking to myself in public
Dodging glances on the train
I know
I know they've all been talking 'bout me
I can hear them whisper
And it makes me think there must be something wrong
With me
Out of all the hours thinking
Somehow
I've lost my mind
I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell
I know, right now you can't tell
But stay awhile and maybe then you'll see
A different side of me
I'm not crazy, I'm just a little impaired
I know right now you don't care
But soon enough you're gonna think of me
And how I used to be
I been talking in my sleep
Pretty soon they'll come to get me
Yeah, they're taking me away
I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell
I know, right now you can't tell
But stay awhile and maybe then you'll see
A different side of me
I'm not crazy I'm just a little impaired
I know, right now you don't care
But soon enough you're gonna think of me
And how I used to be
Hey, how I used to be
How I used to be, yeah
Well I'm just a little unwell
How I used to be
How I used to be

Love Song; Say What?

I am currently enjoying some music on Itunes....for those of you that don't know Itunes is doing this 69 cent love songs and they have love songs from the 60's to today. I've listened to just about all of them by now and as I'm listening to the songs...as the decades go on the music really changes.

In the 60's the songs are about how people feel when they are with another person. The songs are about love, true love. The people are singing their hearts out about something real and true. This continues all the way up until the end of the 90's and today.

I think it's really pathetic how today there aren't any true blue songs about just; love. I don't want to hear about how Enrique doesn't mean to be rude, but tonight; he's "fucking you.". I don't want to hear Akon try to be polite and call some girl a "sexy bitch". I don't know if I can think of an R&B song from today where the artist isn't singing about banging people. Unless the song is a remake of course...

I just don't understand what has happened to love in music. I don't know about everyone else, but sometimes I get really sick and tired of listening to people sing about sex all day long. It's not even good sex, it's One-Night-Stand sex, it's totally unattached sex. I thought music was suppose to be about how people feel, when I hear a song I want to know what that person felt when they wrote it. And I want real music, that techno stuff is fine to a point but I don't wanna hear it all day. Maybe, when Enrique or his song writer was writing Tonight I'm Loving You they were in a horny mood. But I have a really hard time believing that every artists is always in that horny mood.

I guess I'm just saying that sometimes, I just want to hear a genuine song about love...about how it can be real, and I should be able to hear that without listening to Taylor Swift.

I'm Just a Girl, Trying Not to Lose it.

Sometimes, i just need to know that no matter what you say...or how you act. That no matter what, I'm still your number one. Sometimes, I can't be the one that reassures me. Sometimes I need you to do it, because sometimes when jokes are said it kills my confidence. And sometimes I lose my confidence and become vulnerable. I don't like being vulnerable. So I get upset, and scared, and I look for some help from you, so you can give me that confidence boost I need to bring me back. Just understand this:

I'm just a girl, and girls need confidence boosts. We all like to think that we are more confident with ourselves then what we actually are. And sometimes we lose it.

I'm just a girl, and girls need to know that they are loved. We never get tired of hearing how much you love us.

I'm just a girl, and girls need to know when we're missed. If you miss us, you have to let us know because we don't just assume that you do.

I'm just a girl, and girls go by what you tell us. If you don't tell us things because you think we just know...we will think that you just don't feel that way at all.

I'm just a girl, and girls like to feel like they are the only ones that make you feel that way. We don't want to feel like the way we feel is one-sided. Girls don't get tired of hearing about how much you care about us.

I'm just a girl, and girls are more insecure then they like to admit. We don't like to vulnerable, we are fragile things, and need to hear you say nice things to us...because girls forget, constantly.

I try to get a grip and not be such a girl for you. But sometimes I lose it.