Love

I hate it when people say "I love you" when they don't mean it. I know it's hard for people to really know what love is, but I think people throw the word "love" around way too much. Which sucks because when people use it for real...it doesn't have the same impact. "I love you" should be one of the most powerful things you could possibly say to someone, it should take your breath away. It should mean that you would do anything for them and that you just simply cannot function without them. It should come from the bottom of your heart and you should mean it with your heart and soul.  When you tell someone you love them it should really mean a lot, you should have a hard time saying it because it's kind of a big deal. 

It's also really sad when people only realize they love something when they lose it...because once you lose something it might be too late to get it back. I wish people could just realize what they had, and be thankful for what they had because a lot of people don't have that. I mean...if you have someone that means the world to you, if you mean the world to them...and if they would do anything for you. Don't let stupid things get in the way of that. For the love of all things good, remember what you have, and hold onto it forever. Don't let things that won't last forever get in the way of something that could.

I think people today let the stupidest things get in the way of love. Love isn't about appearance. It's about personality and chemistry, appearance is all attraction, not love. It kind of makes me wonder why we even have dating sites. I understand that they are based on "29 dimensions of  compatibility" but...the couples that are coming up on or have already reached their 50th anniversaries didn't need a website..and they seem really happy, after 50 years.


This makes me wonder about our society, why is it all of sudden so hard for people to find their soul mate? Is it because their impatient and want love now. Or maybe everyone is just really picky...and they might strongly consider someone but...oh! wait, yeah..nope I don't like that one little thing that shouldn't even matter. I mean...why have the possibility of being completely happy with someone who's right in front of you who might have 1 imperfect quality when you could go on a dating site and find someone who appears to have no imperfect qualities and they're just as good as the imperfect guy. 

This kind of stuff makes me wish I lived my life when my grandparents did because those people had it right. I think they really understood what love was, it's sad that people in my generation have lost the meaning of it. I hope we find again someday.