Girls vs. Boys

I'm pretty sure everyone knows that girls and boys think totally differently.
Girls over think everything, and guys don't think enough. This is what makes girls think guys are confusing and guys think girls are confusing. Boys are so simple that girls don't understand it, and boys are so simple that they don't try to read into anything a girl says.

For example, if I tell a girl that I like apples, she will start thinking why might I like apples? Maybe It's because they taste good, maybe because of their color, maybe their texture, maybe because they're easy to eat. If I tell a boy that I like apples, that's all his going to hear, Haley likes apples, okay good, awesome.

I think this is where girls and boys have such a hard time in communicating...I'm not trying to say boys and girls just can not talk because people just don't understand this big difference. Some girls can talk to boys and some boys can talk to girls and its no problem. But some can't.

Girls and boys have a hard time communicating because boys will say things very upfront, simple, and fairly honest. Girls will say things honestly, but not simple or upfront because girls like saying one thing but meaning another. This makes it difficult for both parties, because the boys will only see what the girl says, and if they try to figure out what she's really saying then he might be wrong which causes more problems. And when boys are so honest and upfront, they don't always say what the girl hopes for. Or the girl will over think what he said and twist it into something that it's not (boys can do this too, but it's way more common for girls to do it).

So I have some advice...
Girls-try your best to just talk upfront with the boys, stop doing the puzzle thing if you can, just because the guys don't know what your really trying to say doesn't mean they don't care about you, it just means that they really just don't know what your trying to say. So tell them, upfront, and honestly. Boys really aren't as complicated as we like to think.
Boys-do your best when it comes to figuring out what we're really trying to say, maybe just asking the girl upfront would be a good idea because it's hard to say something in puzzle form when you ask something upfront. Don't be afraid to talk to us, we really aren't as complicated as you say. All a girl really wants is or someone to think she's pretty, and someone to love her. Of course every girl is different so...some things may vary but that's pretty much it.