I already posted a blog about how the little things are the things that matter most. I decided to post another one because I feel like people forget about the little things.
Which is an awful, sad thing because the little things are much bigger than the big things. To me and the people I know that's how it is at least...
This is going to be hard to explain though...because if I tell you that a hug would mean more to me than a brand new car you might take me as insane. I think that just might be true though. In hindsight I would much rather receive a real I-missed-you-more-then-you-know-hug or a Thank-you-for-being-there-for-me-hug or a I'm-glad-we're-friends-hug I think I would even prefer a It's-Friday-let's-hug-hug.
I think I would prefer those things more because people can't be replaced. There is only one of me, and will only ever be one of me...there is only one of you and will only ever be only one of you. Think of someone you care deeply about right now...the person in your head, is the only person like that. They are the only one, so you should treat them like it.
And I feel like people don't realize that until it's too late. This is why the little things matter. Because when you look back, maybe you should have stopped for two seconds and just given the person you care about something as simple as a hug instead of jump into a new car because people can replace things like cars very easily. But we can't replace people we love.
It's not hard to brighten a persons day, all you have to do is a little thing. I mean sure getting someone a car would probably make their day...maybe even their month but it will also ruin their day when they spill something in it for the first time or when they have to go fill it up. There isn't anything wrong with a true blue hug, or a kiss, or an 'I love you', 'I miss you', 'You're beautiful', 'I'm thinking about you'.
The little things are the key, don't forget about them.

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